Monday Musings- A Woman Who Inspired Me With Her Luxe Wedding Outfit And Flat Shoes
Happy Monday ladies. Today I am musing about what I’m reading, and a woman who inspired me with her luxe wedding guest outfit with flat shoes.
One of my goals this year has been to read more books. My daughter set book goals for herself last year that I found staggering. I’m not that ambitious so I’m just making a concerted effort to read more. I include audiobooks in my count (although I’m not really counting) because I listen to them while I’m walking, ironing, driving, etc.
Currently reading
This weekend,Ā I restarted Along The Infinite Sea, which I tried to get into last summer. I’m galloping through it this time, perhaps because I just finished another book by Elizabeth Williams so I’m enjoying her style of writing.
Newest shoes
The flats I’m wearing are my newest Margaux Demi’s in the color, Dove. I love a classic ballet flat but many hit right on the sore spot of my bunion. These come in tons of colors and widths, plus the drawstring is a working cord that I loosen on my left foot to give my bunion a bit more room. I debated buying another Cerulean Blue pair because I’ve almost worn them out, but I like this pale gray for summer.
BTW, when did the veins on the top of my feet get as ropey as the ones on the back of my hands?
Currently listening to
I think I read every book that Sarah Ban Breathnach wrote back in the 90s. She had a way of looking at life that appealed to me then, and now.
I actually still have my old stained copy of this hardcover, but I bought the audiobook because it’s read by the author and I find her voice as soothing as what she says. FYI, I still have 6 or more boxes of books in my garage that may never see the light of day unless we get going on those bookshelves I want.
Outfit of the week- Wedding Guest Outfit with flat shoes
Have you ever spotted a woman who was so beautifully dressed that you couldn’t help but stare? I saw one over the weekend as she headed into a wedding reception at a historic hotel. I hurried over to tell her how stunning she looked, which I believe we should all do more often. It also gave me a chance to get a closer look at how she put the outfit together.
She walked with the most amazing cane and wore flat shoes which goes to show, that the right flats needn’t derail a dressy outfit. Her makeup was soft and pretty, and she looked positively regal. Her jacket had less embroidery and looked closer to this one.
How often do you spot a woman you’d love to study closely to see how she puts herself together? Do you compliment her?
Thanks for reading and remember to wear what makes you feel confident.
Still loving your posts. A couple of problems: after i updated my IO apple info on my ipad, i can no longer access your bullet points on your posts. A bit frustrating, but I’ll adjust. Love that linen jacket. But here in south Texas the lining would make it impractical for summer wear.
The south has a whole different level of heat to deal with. I know I would dress very differently there.
I have many times and reveived a few myself. Whether it is a hairstyle, clothing or accessory. It is such a small thing to do but it can brighten someones day.
Itās a beautiful, feminine outfit that I certainly would wear with confidence to many occasions, including a wedding, the theatre, dinner on a cruiseā¦Iām sure the lady looked very elegant and was thrilled you complimented her outfit.
I always compliment a women who is beautifully dressed or has a pretty hairstyle if Iām in close proximity.
It can make a woman’s day, week, or month to receive a genuine compliment. So happy you give them too š
It feels so great to give and receive a compliment. That really can make someone’s day. I love those ballet flats but I recently dislocated my toe and was told no more thin soled shoes for me. I am just starting to read Summer Wives, looks good.
Ouch! Sorry about the toe…I have done that too many times in my life. Elevate it and reading is the best medicine.
Thanks very much, Jennifer, for two recent no-sew baggy tee adjustment ideas. Tucking an edge through a belt loop will save me several hours of frustrating and ultimately less-than-successful alterations.
More, please, of similar ‘quick takes’ would greatly please this loyal reader!
I’m glad you liked it. I will keep them coming.
What a gorgeous outfit that lady was wearing and I’m sure she was thrilled you noticed. I’ve made it a point to compliment others over the last few years, and lately I’ve been the recipient of quite a few. I think it’s the combination of white hair and the brighter colours that I’m now wearing as I certainly stand out. I even had a compliment from a young (20 something) gal the other day!
Your hair sounds so striking Yvonne! I love that you’re getting compliments xo
Very pretty! I need flats so will be checking them out! A few months ago I told a woman in the oncologistās office how pretty she looked in a fuschia top. She told me she had not felt good for months, but was making an effort. So you never know when a compliment might be just the thing!
What a wonderful thing it is when someone notices, and lets us know, that they appreciate the effort we have made, in our clothing choices, or anything else! I am, like many commenters, trying to do that more often. Thank you for the reminder. I clicked on the photo of the ” less embroidered” jacket and thought that entire look was spoiled by the shoes! Anyone else feel that way??
Love your elegant outfit with flat shoes! I just had a total knee replacement and needed such an idea. Thank you! Also, I am teasing Summer Wives and am really enjoying it! Thanks for that suggestion too!
I wish you a speedy recovery! I know they do this surgery all the time but itās still pretty major.
That is a stunning outfit and I love the fact that it includes pants instead of a dress! I’m still stuck in the past where I wouldn’t even think of wearing pants to a wedding!
I’d love to see a wedding guest post for late fall/winter weddings because my next wedding to attend is New Year’s Eve 2022! I’d love to look as stunning as this woman must have looked, and still be warm!
A fancy jacket and pants may just do the trick! The beauty is, this type of outfit would get more wear other than the one occasion.
Exactly! The pieces could be mixed and matched for multiple uses. Thus could easily be duplicated in a darker color like chocolate or charcoal, even black, for a winter wedding.
Yes, I tell someone they look lovely. In my opinion, we need to make an effort to be kind to one another.
I agree!
I really never thought much about complimenting attractively dressed and groomed women that are strangers. However, a few weeks ago a women came up to me and said I looked āawesomeā. I was so surprised and incredibly pleased to receive this nice compliment. I have thought about this incident many times over and remember how good it made me feel and how much I appreciated her comment.
Now I am doing my best to extend this kindness to others. Only I want to carry it into my observation of not only how āawesomeā someone looks but how awesome they act as well. I come in contact every day with both women and men who do many kind things for others and without any expectation of it being noticed or thanked.
I agree Elaine! Our society criticizes others so easily, Iād prefer we were more positive.
Now I know where to find the flats I like. Long drive to a Macy’s but haven’t found these close to home.
It used to be easier to compliment people when they dressed up. To be honest, I see a lot of sloppy sweatpants, oversized t-shirts and flipflops these days. I do hope we return to something a little better than that as a standard. Just as comfy, but a little nicer, would be ballet flats, leggings and a tunic, for example. I’m not expecting ballgowns and tiaras, just something that shows the wearer was thoughtful in their choices.
I agree Sue. Iām not sure we will see an improvement in the general population but I like to do my small part.
Love that you let her know how beautiful she looked. I do that, you can see how a simple compliment like you look lovely today just lifts their spirit.
It does and makes me feel better too!
I often compliment friends as well as strangers when they look nice, or are wearing something that I like. That was often part of my greeting to each student as I stood at the door of my classroom welcoming students as they entered. Everyone appreciates being complimented, and itās so easy to give a compliment! BTW bulging veins come with age as our skin thins, and valves in veins weaken. Anytime our arms and legs are below the level of our hearts, this increases the effort for blood to pumped up to our hearts, and our weakened blood vessels budge. Iām a retired science teacher if you cannot tell!
Teachers are the best people! Thanks Celia. My feet and hand look nice and smooth when I elevate them.
Simple Abundance is an inspiring book that helped me get through the first dark year after my daughterās death.
Iām so very sorry to hear about your daughter Beth. My heart goes out to you.
Listening to this again, I find itās as current today as it was then.
Thanks for stopping to compliment a stranger on her outfit. To Carols point,
that wouldāve made my day.
Itās such a small gesture and easy to do. I thought I did it a lot, but know I could do it more.
Those shoes! I have never been able to wear this kind of shoe because of MY bunions. So sad! And novels are fine, but I read so many mysteries that I cannot read novels anymore—-I am always waiting for someone to be murdered! lol
I’m sure you made her day by stopping to compliment her. I was walking to the car after returning my cart at Trader Joe’s when I woman who’d stopped to let me cross rolled down her window to say she loved my outfit. That continues to go a long way in making me feel good about dressing well every time I leave the house. Those small moments (to us) often have the biggest impact on the recipient.
I’ll have to look into the shoes, but have difficulty finding anything with enough good support.
It does help build us up. I give compliments as often as I can.