Monday Musings- A Fresh Start
Happy Monday, ladies. I hope your weekend was a fun one. We had rain which allowed me to catch up on some reading and do my ironing…I know, I lead an exciting life:) I also moved some things around in my wardrobe and started another bag to donate once things open back up here.
Here’re are a few things on my mind this week-
Location Is Everything
Have you heard of the Nuface? It’s an at-home, advanced microcurrent facial toning device that promises to help improve facial contour, tone, and the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles.
I bought one a couple of years ago because women seem to love it! I was excited to use it but hardly ever used it. Not because it’s hard to use or time-consuming, because it’s quick and easy. I never used it because of its location. I kept it on my dressing table where I sit to apply “putty and paint” as my husband calls makeup. By the time I spotted it there each morning it was too late to use. I vowed to remember the next day, then the day after that, and so on. I never did remember to use it before my shower, so I gave up and stowed it under my sink.
After reading another glowing review last week, I hauled it out and plugged it in right next to my toothbrush. Not glamorous, but I’ve used it every morning since. Proving that location is everything and that having things handy means you don’t have to rely on your memory. A win-win for me.
Wine
We belong to several wine clubs and love to go wine tasting. Several weeks ago I got an email asking if I’d like to receive two bottles of Far Niente wine in exchange for sharing Far Niente’s Join a Club, Help the Community initiative. This initiative donates $50 for every wine club signup to the Restaurant Workers’ Community Foundation and the Napa Valley Food Bank through the end of May to provide relief to those in need. I said heck yes and decided to share it here as well in case any of you are wine lovers like we are.
Hair Raising
The salons here in California aren’t open yet and are showing no signs of doing it anytime soon 🙁 The longer I go without a trim or high and low lights, the thinner and flatter my hair becomes. My daughter is adamant I shouldn’t trim my own hair but I did do my bangs and that turned out ok. The color issue is a real struggle. The decision to go gray or silver has many working parts but the one I forgot, was how much benefit I get from the color process.
I have messaged Madison Reed and we’re talking about a color that could/would work for me. They promise salon-quality, at-home hair color that is ammonia-free and has no parabens. My mom used drug store hair color her entire life and looked great so how hard can this be?
Hummingbird Update
You ladies were right! These cheeky little birds prefer the least expensive feeder possible. I took your advice and boiled the filtered water and sugar and mixture and they’re coming around! The brazen little fellas aren’t concerned with my presence at all! There are so many around they’re even drinking out of my old feeder they previously wanted no part of.
Do you color your own hair? I’d love to hear about your experiences.
Thanks for reading and be sure to wear what makes you feel confident.

I coloured my hair for the first time in 20 years a couple of weeks ago. I don’t have a lot of gray but my hair colour is blah so I get it done every 10-12 weeks. Fortunately I have a wonderful stylist and when I texted her that I was desperate she went to the drugstore and sent me a picture of the brand and colour I should use along with specific instructions which included leaving it on for 45 min instead of 25 that the box recommended. I am pleased with the result but not with the mess or how difficult it was for me to sustain my arms above my shoulders for so long. So as soon as the salons open I will be back!
I’m going to message my stylist! Great idea
Please follow up with your experience with NuFace Trinity. I would like to hear results from someone I have faith in to tell her true results using this device. Thank you.
Yay for the hummers! Aren’t they fun?
About hair…I stopped coloring mine 2 years ago (I’m now 67.) I’d gone in for a color appointment, saw my stylist of over 30 years, and said I think I’m done. Totally spontaneous. We cut it short and she gave me lots of highlights so that the growing out period was pretty painless. My hair color is actually pretty! My eyebrows are still very dark brown, but somehow it all works. Once I got some length, I got a very modern short angled bob with an undercut. My hairstylist advised that a very modern haircut would offset the aging effect of silver hair—boy was she right! For the first time in my life, I get compliments on my hair! For the record, I don’t have good hair, it’s baby fine and straight as a stick. I do miss the body that coloring gave me, but find that using the right products helps with that. I use Redken Hardware for blow drying. It adds thickness to my hair without weighing it down.
Right now, I’m missing a good haircut, but will make do until it’s safe to get one. In the meantime, Bobbi pins are my friend to keep hair out of my eyes. I’ve tried to have fun with them, using bright colors since there’s no hiding the fact that there are Bobbi pins in my hair. 😊
Cheers to all!
My natural colour was a warm brunette and I loved it. In my late 50’s it started to fade some and I started to colour it to my original natural colour. I retired almost 4 years ago and decided I would dye it myself because of the cost. I was using eSalon and they worked with me to get the colour pretty good but after a couple years I felt my hair was getting dry and decided I was done colouring and would just see what was under there:) My grey is fairly dark and I’m not completely grey yet but I feel like there is more volume to my hair now than before. I struggle with some hair loss especially on top but with a good cut, which I desperately need now, I’m happy with my decision.