Rituals for Unwinding
How do you unwind? Relaxation is becoming increasingly important to me as I consider stress’ impact on my health. I struggle with high blood pressure and take medication to control it. That does keep it in check but I also use holistic practices to help reprogram my type AA personality.
Here are a few things I do to unwind.
- I stopped watching the news at the suggestion of Dr. Andrew Weil in this book and I have never regretted the decision. If something enormous happens, someone will tell me, but otherwise, I don’t need to know. Most local news is simply crime reporting which I find depressing and sad. If I need to know world events I can get a quick update from the internet.
- I listen to classical or spa music at home. This is my favorite soothing CD which plays on a loop in my car.

- I buy fresh flowers for myself each week because having beauty around me is relaxing.
- I’ve just rediscovered the joy of immersing myself in a fun novel. My latest are by Fiona Davis. I just finished The Address and loved it! It’s historical fiction about the famous Dakota in New York City. I dreaded coming to the end so quickly ordered The Dollhouse which is about the glamorous Barbizon Hotel for women, set in the 1950’s and present day. I like her writing so much I just bought her latest book, The Masterpiece, which is about Grand Central Station in the 1920’s and 1070’s. Sadly, those are the only 3 books she’s written so I am open for suggestions:)

- I am writing in a gratitude journal each morning, taking time to meditate and diffusing essential oils.

camping - My newest ritual has been to get up before the sun, light a candle and sit quietly enjoying my tea. There’s something very soothing about watching the world wake up. I like how it sets the mood for my day and find it helps me be more productive.

- I burn candles. Most evenings you’ll find candles burning on my mantle, coffee table, and end table. I find them soothing plus everything looks better by candlelight.
I recently found what may be the healthiest candles around. The owner reached out to me and after I read her story and tried her candles, I wanted to share them with you. This is not a sponsored post.
Rebecca is a breast cancer survivor who stopped burning candles because of their toxins. She missed enjoying the ritual of burning a candle so in 2014 created a safer alternative and started Sanari Candles.
These special candles are made from organic coconut wax and non-GMO soy wax which is sourced from organic farmers who use sustainable sources. It turns out that good old coconut wax is one of the safest waxes to burn, plus its renewable and environmentally friendly.
She mixes in pure essential oils for the full aromatherapy effect. The wick is a wide unbleached cotton which burns cleanly and evenly, creating a triangular glow. The candles are hand-poured into a recycled stemless wine glasses. How’s that for environmentally friendly?
Rebecca has generously offered to give my readers a 25% discount with the code LIFE25 at checkout, which is good until 9/30/18.
She has also generously offered to give away a 16 oz candle to one of my readers. My favorite fragrance so far is this Pompelo which is a blend of Douglas Fir, Chamomile, and Lavender. So soothing!
To win the candle, simply pop over here and see which blend sounds yummiest to you, Then come back and leave it in the comments. I will pick a winner at random.
How do you unwind?
This giveaway is now closed.
Thanks for reading ladies and have a great day!
Affiliate link within this post may generate income for AWSL

I love anything grapefruit so the Granita is it for me!
Bosco scent would take me back to Chania Crete in Greece while the snow falls and winds roar in Massachusetts this winter.
Fresco sounds wonderful!
If I have had a very stressful day, I will go for a long walk. I can ponder and plan while I am walking and usually by the time I am home I do feel a lot of the stress has fallen off my shoulders. I walk in the forest when I can, nature and trees, the green really helps. When I am at home, I listen to very soothing music, also burn candles and never watch the news!
The Bosco candle sounds wonderful. I love the idea of candles without toxins!
I too have returned to enjoyment reading. Light and pleasant. Last summers beach read was “Lillian Boxfish Takes A Walk “by Kathleen Rooney
I think the NYer in you will enjoy it.
Just wanted to share.
Thanks Kathleen! I check it out
I do all of your stress busting rituals too! I would love to try one of the candles; I think I’ll try the Tretino. Thanks Jennifer.
What a lovely give away! The Sorbetto scent really appeals to me. Thank you Jennifer.
The Biscotti!I love the description.I find crossword puzzles relaxing and playing with my cats.
The Biscotti or the Bosco sounds wonderful! Keep unwinding!
I think the Granita sounds wonderful! I diffuse grapefruit oil a lot and also add it to my water. I would love the smell in a candle.
All great ways to relax! I love the sound of the book, The Dollhouse and I may have to check that out on amazon. I have a diffuser, a wooden looking one from amazon that looks like a piece of art.. I enjoy using it when taking a bubble bath. Enjoyed reading!
Have a great weekend Jen!
jess xx
Aria sounds wonderful to me! I’d love to try it as I go through lots of candles throughout the year. They bring peace and relaxation to me.