14 Books on Healthy Aging and Self Development Worth Reading
Today’s post is for my fellow bookworms. Many of you know from my Monday Musings that I’m always looking for a great new read, and my favorite topic of late is aging. After scouring the bookshelves, revisiting my personal favorites, and asking AWSL readers for their recommendations, I’ve created a mix of page-turners that’ll not only help you embrace and rethink the aging process but also ignite your personal growth. You’ll want to add these 14 must-read books on healthy aging and self-development to your fall and winter reading lists. So, grab a comfy chair and a cup of your favorite brew – it’s time to explore the best books about savvy aging and self-discovery!

PS. I haven’t read all of these books yet personally and am working my way through the list, so let me know if you’ve read any of them in the comments. Do you have any other books to add to the list?
If you love reading, you can also visit this post to find more books to add to your reading list.
14 Books on Healthy Aging and Self Development Worth Reading
“The Gift of Years: Growing Old Gracefully” by Joan Chittister
This enlightening book by Joan Chittister reminds us that each year added to our journey brings unique insights, a deeper sense of self, and the opportunity to embrace life’s beauty in new and profound ways. Through poignant stories and reflective wisdom, it paints a portrait of aging as a gift, inviting us to cherish every moment and savor the richness that each year brings.
“Aging with Grace: Flourishing in an Anti-Aging Culture” by Sharon W. Betters & Susan Hunt
This book resonated with me because I absolutely hate the anti-aging culture we live in! “Aging with Grace” provides a refreshing perspective on flourishing within a culture often obsessed with anti-aging ideals. This thought-provoking book encourages readers to shift their focus from resisting the natural process of aging to embracing it as a pathway to personal growth, resilience, and a more authentic sense of self.
“The Age Well Project: Easy Ways to a Longer, Healthier, Happier Life” by Annabel Streets and Susan Saunders
This book recommendation came from AWSL reader Patricia. Here’s what she had to say: “I can heartily recommend the book The Age Well Project (I got my copy used from Amazon, it’s a UK book). The ladies who wrote it met at the school gates years ago, and both had cause to look into healthy aging, as one had a parent with Alzheimer’s, and the other had breast cancer in the family. They also have a website of the same name, and you can sign up for the newsletter. The book (and website) covers a wide range of topics with lots of ideas for healthy living as we age. Highly recommended!”
“The Grace in Aging” by Kathleen Dowling Singh
“The Grace in Aging” is a gentle and introspective exploration of the profound beauty that unfolds as we age and illuminates how the later years can be a time of deepening connections, inner peace, and a heightened appreciation for life’s simple joys. With grace as its guiding thread, this book reminds us that aging is a sacred process.
“Life is in the Transitions: Mastering Change at Any Age” by Bruce Feiler
This one would be a great gift to your adult children of any age. Bruce Feiler masterfully guides readers through the intricate dance of change, offering a roadmap for navigating life’s myriad transitions at any stage. With a blend of personal stories, research, and practical strategies, Feiler empowers us to harness the potential for growth and renewal that these transitions bring, reminding us that even in times of uncertainty, life’s most profound lessons and opportunities are often found in the midst of change.
“Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead” by Brené Brown
Through insightful anecdotes and research, Brown reveals how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections, authentic love, effective parenting, and impactful leadership. The book challenges societal notions of weakness, inviting readers to step into the arena of life with courage and authenticity, ultimately fostering a more wholehearted and fulfilling existence. I listened to this one on audible several years ago and think I will revisit it.
“Atomic Habits” by James Clear
Here’s another great personal growth book to add to your list. “Atomic Habits” by James Clear is a game-changing guide to understanding and harnessing the small but significant habits that shape our lives. With a blend of scientific insights and practical advice, Clear unveils the mechanics of habit formation, offering a roadmap for positive behavior change. The book’s actionable strategies empower readers to make gradual yet powerful shifts, leading to remarkable transformations and lasting personal growth.
“The Well-Lived Life: A 102-Year-Old Doctor’s Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at Every Age” by Gladys McGarey
This inspiring guide provides a roadmap to a life well-lived, serving as a timeless reminder that age is no barrier to a vibrant and joyful life. “The Well-Lived Life” captures the wisdom of a 102-year-old doctor, sharing six invaluable secrets that promise health and happiness throughout every stage of life. With a lifetime of experiences, the book offers practical insights on cultivating a fulfilling existence by focusing on physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
“Untamed” by Glennon Doyle
“Untamed” by Glennon Doyle is a raw and empowering memoir that unapologetically encourages readers to break free from societal expectations and embrace their true selves. Through her personal journey of self-discovery, Doyle challenges conventions and invites us to live authentically, daring to untame our souls and reclaim our inner wildness. This captivating book is a rallying call to find courage in vulnerability and live a life guided by the untamed, fierce spirit within us. As Glennon insists: The braver we are, the luckier we get.
“Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life… and Maybe the World” by William H. McRaven
“Make Your Bed” by Admiral William H. McRaven is a concise yet powerful book that distills life lessons from Navy SEAL training into practical advice for personal growth and success. With each chapter centered around the simple act of making your bed, McRaven emphasizes the importance of discipline, resilience, and attention to detail in achieving larger goals. This book inspires readers to take control of their daily actions and, in doing so, create a positive ripple effect that can extend to their personal lives and beyond.
“Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe” by Laura Lynne Jackson
“Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe” by Laura Lynne Jackson is a captivating exploration of the subtle ways in which the universe communicates with us. Through heartfelt anecdotes and profound insights, Jackson unveils the hidden messages and synchronicities that guide our lives. This enlightening book offers a glimpse into the interconnectedness of our world, reminding us to remain open to the signs that lead us toward purpose and understanding. I listen to this on Audible twice!
“Outlive: The Science & Art of Longevity” by Peter Attia, MD
I personally loved listening to this book on Audible. AWSL reader, Lynn, says: “From a medical perspective, Outlive by Dr Peter Attia is a great overview of the current knowledge regarding optimizing health span (different from lifespan). He also has multiple YouTubes on various subjects.” I’ve listened to this one twice and bought a copy for both of my children.
“Breaking the Age Code” by Becca Levy, PhD
In “Breaking the Age Code” by Becca Levy, readers are taken on an eye-opening journey that challenges conventional views on aging. Through Levy’s pioneering research and compelling narratives, the book sheds light on the profound impact of age-related stereotypes on our health and well-being. By unveiling the hidden influence of societal perceptions, “Breaking the Age Code” empowers readers to rewrite their own aging narrative and embrace the potential for a longer, healthier, and more fulfilling life.
“Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier” by Kevin Kelly
In “Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier” by Kevin Kelly, readers are treated to a rich tapestry of hard-earned insights and practical wisdom. With humility and candor, Kelly shares a wealth of life lessons, offering a roadmap for navigating challenges and embracing opportunities.
Have you read any inspiring ones lately?















I just picked up Forever Strong by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon. So far it is fascinating. I lost a great deal of weight and needed something to help me regain lost muscle mass.
Your reading list is phenomenal and can’t wait to add some of those to my library.
That sounds like a great book!
I am reading “The End of Alzheimers” by Dr Dale Bredesen. It is the first of three books he has written on Alzheimers. Brilliant book for everyone from prevention to treatment. Now this is a book about healthy aging!!
Thanks for the recommendation! It sounds great.
These are such great books. I will add them to my reading g list.
Thanks for all your research.
Thanks so much Jennifer!
I will look at several of these titles. This is what I love and enjoy about your marvelous blog. Such variety and I do appreciate your ability to laugh at little things that pop up in our lives as we age.
Thank you!
I’m glad you’re here with us, Mary Ann.
Hi Jennifer, thanks so much for including my suggestion, The Age Well Project. The others also look great, and I’m certainly going to check out as many as I can, particularly Destination Fabulous and Hot Granny!
Thank you so much for this list. I’ve been feeling very aged lately and don’t like it. I need some inspiration to change my mindset!
Me too. I just finished reading Desination Fabulous and found it very uplifting.
I loved the ‘Make your bed’ book by William McRaven and have also read ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear.
I have the book by Peter Attia on my bedside table ready to read. I have added to my library wish list some of the others you have recommended.
BTW, I received the tea I ordered from Murchies and am loving it! Thanks for the link😊
That’s awesome. I don’t earn a commission from Murchies but they’re too good not to share!
Am reading May Sarton At 82 a journal Which is exactly my age!!! There is one thing no one really mentioned is that we may have to care for a partner with dementia my case so believe me no time for navel gazing!!!
I’m so sorry, Annie. That is really, really hard. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there and be sure to take self-care time!!
Thank you for this list, Jennifer. I have read and loved both Joan Chittister and Admiral McRaven. Different approaches but very worthwhile advice from both. I look forward to exploring some of the others on the list.
Thanks for your input on them, Jeanne
Please take a look at my book, Hot Granny, Chronicle Books. Here’s the interview on the CBS Morning show. Google: CBS Mel Walsh…for the interview about aging.
I am 87 and a gerontologist with an advanced degree from USC, so it is written from two points of view…personal and factual from academic studies. Illustrated and available from Amazon. I make no money from these sales but would like people to get their hands on it. Also light-hearted. Thanks. Mel Walsh
You book sounds great, Mel!
I have read and highly recommend Breaking the Age Code. Now I’ll have to add a few more of these to my must read list!
It sounds really good. Thanks
I highly recommend Oldster, the more-than-weekly Substack magazine started by Sari Botton. I’ve learned so much from my (free) subscription that I’m upgrading to paid, which says a lot, as I hate paying for content on the internet! It’s just so fascinating to read about other people’s experiences of aging.
Here’s the link: https://oldster.substack.com/
Thanks for the great list of books! My husband is the one who’s is always reading about aging well, health and wellness. I will share this list and maybe have to share some of his.
Lovely list of books! One that I am currently reading and should be added to your list is Destination Fabulous by Anna Murphy. I highly recommend it.
I just finished that! It’s fabulous
On my computer, this sensational article is only text– one long paragraph with no photos or links. Is this my computer or can you resend?
I fixed it. Not sure what’s wrong but I will have to find out.
I highly recommend Younger Next Year for Women by Chris Crowley and Henry Lodge, M.D. The book is very positive and focuses mainly on the importance of daily exercise to age well. Another book I enjoyed is The Expectation Effect: How Your Mindset Can Change Your World by David Robson .
Thank you Stacey!